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Incourage essays

How to navigate through the fog of uncertainty

I grew up in Chicago where winters were punctuated by blustery winds, snow drifts, and icy roads. I remember having to put on all the layers to bundle up before school and the strange sensation of my nose hairs freezing when I stepped outside our front door in the morning. After college, I moved to Central California to chase a career as a ... [Keep Reading...]

January 11, 2021 Categories: General, Navigating GriefTagged: Incourage essays

When my roses are preaching about healing from trauma

I’m not very good at keeping plants alive. I forget to water them. I leave them in the sun, and sometimes they become parched. I even have a penchant for killing succulents. That said, I love flowers. Watching them grow and bloom makes my heart swell. In this time of COVID-19 and sheltering at home for months, I’ve been longing to see more ... [Keep Reading...]

July 23, 2020 Categories: GeneralTagged: Incourage essays, Lead Loved, trauma

The dance of grief and glory through the holidays

I still remember our first Thanksgiving after my husband Ericlee died. My family tried to hold it together. We tried to stay the course with certain traditions, but it was clear everything was off-kilter. He wasn’t there to run the Turkey Trot. He wasn’t wearing his silly apron in the kitchen, helping me chop the butternut squash for the soup. ... [Keep Reading...]

November 21, 2019 Categories: Navigating GriefTagged: abundance, behold, christmas, courage, death, gifts, Grief, hope, Incourage essays, kids, laughter, transitions

Pivoting Away from Jealousy Toward Abundance

When I was a newly-minted widow, I started to struggle with envy. In those early days of grief, it was excruciatingly hard for me to see all the summer vacation photos with daddies playing with their kids, the wedding anniversary celebrations, and the perfectly-crafted family Christmas pictures. Feelings rose up inside me that I never faced before. ... [Keep Reading...]

October 15, 2019 Categories: Navigating GriefTagged: abundance, community, compassion, flourishing, friendship, gifts, Grief, Incourage essays, struggle

Running for His glory: Learning to breathe at higher altitudes

Breathe in deeply. Let the air gently fill your lungs. Pause. Then release. Feel the tension in your shoulders drift away. Inhale again. Then exhale. This is the give and take of breath. This is a deliberate slowing of the cadence of our breath. This is discovering a new, unforced rhythm. Breathe was the theme of the retreat I attended in ... [Keep Reading...]

July 28, 2019 Categories: Navigating GriefTagged: abundance, community, courage, flourishing, friendship, Grief, hope, Incourage essays, relationships, sharing faith, writing

How pruning clears the path for new growth

I saw the most gorgeous tree the other day at my kids’ school. She stopped me in my tracks with her huge blooms that were fuchsia on the outside and blush pink on the inside. Just a few weeks ago, this very tree was naked, seemingly dead and dry. Now, she sang of new life and was flourishing. We are in the throes of transition from winter to ... [Keep Reading...]

March 18, 2019 Categories: Navigating GriefTagged: family life, flourishing, Grief, Incourage essays, kids, self-care

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He’s my favorite! 💛💙  #dateyourspouse
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Hey friend, are you feeling alone? Are you needing some encouraging words today? I want to invite you to a community where you can receive regular ...

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Hey friend, are you feeling alone? Are you needing some encouraging words today? I want to invite you to a community where you can receive regular words of encouragement and inspiration from a diversity of Bible teachers. 
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I’ve had the privilege of sharing a message for the Online Women’s Bible Study community on the theme: “Ruth: What Happens When an Ordinary Woman Meets an Extraordinary God.” My message will be rolling out in early May. In the meantime, you get access to all the past amazing teachings and can even join our small group feature.
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TODAY aka Friday, April 16, is the LAST day to sign up for the Spring Semester study of More Than Ordinary. Don’t delay. Join today and you get access to all the teachings and a community of women who will be listening and studying alongside you!
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I have loved learning from @beckykiser @kianstephens @barbroose @jillbriscoe @karakae.james @katarmstrong1 @jamieivey and others! 🌸
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Prayer & Devos with Dorina. .
This morning we are soaking in the words of David in Psalm 36. David is preaching to himself and preaching to ...

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Prayer & Devos with Dorina. .
This morning we are soaking in the words of David in Psalm 36. David is preaching to himself and preaching to all of us today. He is burdened by the wickedness in his world.
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After the week we’ve experienced, I can relate to the emotion here. Maybe you can too.
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What does David turn to for relief from the wickedness that surrounds him? He meditates on God’s character.
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He reminds us of God’s faithful love, His righteousness, that He is the judge, that He is our refuge. Friends, let’s cling to this and “take refuge in the shadow of God’s wings today.”
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Do you feel like you are running uphill through the dark? Are you feeling the sear of the fire at your heels?
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I have learned the challenge ...

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Do you feel like you are running uphill through the dark? Are you feeling the sear of the fire at your heels?
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I have learned the challenge is in how we respond.
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Will we let the fires of life destroy us or refine us? Will we let grief overtake us or will we choose comfort in Christ? Will we look away or walk with our brothers and sisters in their suffering? Will we sit in the ashes or will we wear a crown of beauty? 
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Sometimes life is about breathing and lifting, putting one foot in front of the other. Sometimes life is about lifting our eyes to chase God’s glory up the steepest hills and through the darkest corridors of the forest.
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Friends, let’s draw strength from Jesus’ words tonight:
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“God blesses those who are poor and realize their need for him, for the Kingdom of Heaven is theirs. God blesses those who mourn, for they will be comforted. 
God blesses those who are humble, for they will inherit the whole earth. 
God blesses those who hunger and thirst for justice, for they will be satisfied.
God blesses those who are merciful, for they will be shown mercy.
God blesses those whose hearts are pure, for they will see God.
God blesses those who work for peace, for they will be called the children of God.
God blesses those who are persecuted for doing right, for the Kingdom of Heaven is theirs.” 
- ‭Matthew‬ ‭5:3-10‬
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👉🏽Which of these verses brings you comfort? Share in the comments.
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I woke up this morning feeling achy. I drove the girls to school and decided to take some time for soul care. I did a yoga class online. I drank my ...

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I woke up this morning feeling achy. I drove the girls to school and decided to take some time for soul care. I did a yoga class online. I drank my water. But my heart still felt heavy, my body weary.
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Maybe it’s because my alarm had me up at 5:30 am for Bible class.
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Maybe it’s because I woke this morning to more heavy news about a young Black daddy who was shot instead of tased yesterday by a police officer.
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Or maybe it’s because my body remembers grief before my brain does. Grief and trauma makes it’s imprint on our memories, our souls.
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April 13, 2003 was the day I floated down the aisle in a flowing white gown and veil to the regal music of bagpipes. I took my groom’s hands and exchanged forever vows.
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When you’re young in your twenties, you can’t fathom that forever might be cut short, that you might go to Heaven before your mama or your babies are grown.
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Eleven years later, my beloved soared to Heaven. My body always remembers this grief on birthdays and anniversaries, and sometimes holidays.
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💕Friend, if you’re grieving today you have permission to move slowly. If you’re triggered, it’s good to pause. It’s ok to make space to cry, to lament, to write, to sing, to sit quietly, to paint, to cook, and to hug your people tightly. It’s ok.
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I keep remembering what God did when one of his image bearers died...
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Jesus wept. - John 11:35
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